girls make better boyfriends...

this awesomeness is by [rin] , Friday, May 29, 2009 3:55 PM

Read again:
Girls make better boyfriends than guys themselves.

Recently, a friend of mine commented that she'd make a great boyfriend.
After thinking for a while, I have to say I agree with her.

Wanna know why I say so?

It's because, as girls, we have many moods and attitudes.
Guys can't really understand us and all our eccentricities.
They don't know how to treat us exactly right as well as when and what to do at every situation.
That's because guys' minds are way simpler than ours.
To them, everything should be straightforward and they don't understand why girls have to be so secretive and confusing.
Girls, on the other hand, love drama.
They love it if a guy fawns on them and pampers them, because they'll feel cared for and important.
Which is why we do so many 'weird' stuff around guys that we like.
It's 'coz we want ATTENTION!

Ever read that email or Friendster bulletin 'bout the perfect guy/boyfriend?
Where've you been, Mars?
Well, read on.

·´`·.¸.»The Perfect Boyfriend·´`·.¸.»

1. Don't hug her friends or your friends that are girls 'coz she'll feel left out.
2. Hold her hand at any moment; even if its just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind.
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her and tickle her.
6. Don't hang out with you ex when she's not with you, it hurts her.
7. If you're talking to other girls, when you're done, walk over and hug/kiss her; let her know she's yours and they aren't.
8. Write her sweet love notes or call her just to say "Hi".
9. Introduce her to your friends - as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up.
12. Protect her if another guy messes around with her and she doesn't like it.
13. Make her laugh - if you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything.
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then tell her.
17. Every guy should give his girl 3 things:
  • A big, huggable soft toy (She'll hug it every time she goes to sleep)
  • Jewelry (She'll treasure it forever)
  • One of your t-shirts (She'll most likely wear it to bed)
18. Treat her the same all the time - even if it's just the two of you or when you're with your friends.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends.
21. Kiss her in the rain.
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it.
23. If you're listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if it's simple and inexpensive, it came from you. it means all the world to her. It's the thought that counts.
25. When she gives you a present, take it and tell her you love it and will keep it forever.
26. Always call her when you say you will, because it hurts her and makes her think you don't care if you don't keep your promises, so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every time but it's nice for us to hear your voice - even if it's just for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants.
28. Recognize the small things; they usually mean the most.
29. Tell her she's beautiful - not 'Hot', not 'Sexy'; 'Beautiful'.
30. Hang out with her whenever you're free.
31. If u care about her, show her!


Yeah, yeah, I know it sounds real cheesy.
But most of it is true, guys!
So, duh, read, learn and do it!

Anyway, back to what I was saying 'bout girls making the best boyfriends.

Isn't it obvious?
Girls will understand other girls better than guys ever will.
They know what to do when a girl cries.
What to do when she's upset.
How to react when she's feeling down.
How to treat her so that she'll always feel loved.
That's 'coz they themselves are girls.
They know what they themselves would want/need whenever something happens.
And so they're able to treat other girls like that.

And guys...?
Let's just say they need a lot more evolutionary breakthroughs 'till someone achieves perfect-boyfriend-ism.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not condemning guys (And I'm not suggesting that every girl should go homosexual, either!), I just think that, if guys could be more like girls, we'd get along so much better.

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9 Response to "girls make better boyfriends..."

Anonymous Says:

I've tried to do all of those but she didn't appreciate it...
I also wanted to do some but I had some respect for her as she doesn't want it...
Is it that all girls are different??

~Some Guy~

kiaostanblog Says:

well. very true. but. just how many can take it. keep updating. =D.

[rin] Says:

~Some Guy~

of coz all girls are different, but the context dat we all wan attention is stil jz de same.
if we reali like someone, den we wanna gt all de attention frm dat person n spend lots of time wif him.
as for ur case, mayb u nid to gt to noe her more, reali truly noe her n try to understand her - even if its almost imposiible...


Deric Says:

The way you put some of your words in the title makes it somewhat misleading. To say girls make better boyfriends, does that mean girls make better 'male' companions? Defying logic, doesnt it? Why not just say girls are better friends THAN boys?

Evolutionary breakthroughs for perfect boyfriend-ism? Nobody is ever perfect, so how can there ever be perfect boyfriend-ism and vice versa? What's the point of a perfect boyfriend when a girl does not know appriciate him, and vice versa?

After all, as long as he/she can find his/her Mrs/Mr Right, forgive and tolerate her/his imperfections, devote and dedicate the rest of her/his life to/for him/her, grow old together, go through life's hardships together, have children and grandchildren together, then THAT is the perfect companion, and THAT is what matters most, not just buying plush toys and kissing in the rain, etc.

When you look at the big picture, a 'perfect' boy/girlfriend is the least of your worries. Its the perfect soulmate and life partner you should be thinking of (well, not now).

[rin] Says:

Deric, my dear dear darling buddy...

i typed this post out with a comment from delia in mind: "i think i would make such a good bf,", which she commented in school come time ago...
and, if guys were anything even a little like the way girls are, they'd already achieve "perfection" (in the figurative manner).
and besides, i don't truly believe in the PERFECT soulmate coz there's something surely missing from everyone.
now, if we could have a dna modifier to determine what kind of guy we'd want EXACTLY then yeah, perfectionism live on.
but then again, maybe i've been watching too many sci-fis...

Riger DC Says:

her comment is already self-conflicting: a girl cant be a boyfriend (unless opt for gender change).

I believe that is only your (perhaps many girls') opinion on guys being "perfect". Many other girls would say different things.

yes, obviously nobody is perfect, (I retract my phrase 'perfect companion'), and there are no factually perfect soulmates, what matters is that your soulmate fulfills most importantly your needs. As for wants and desires, that comes later, and perhaps learn to compromise a little bit.

Yeah, lay off the Sci-fi and day dreams for a while. Wake up to reality.

[rin] Says:

lol... well... go tell delia to go homo, then... I DARE YOU... hehe~

Deric Says:

nothing's in it for me.. why bother...

[rin] Says:

hmm, you're the one challenging her...

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